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This offers a balanced and insightful view on marital dynamics. a great uh motto from the Royal society which was the Society of scientists in uh Britain during their enlightenment era and uh the motto of the royal so society is nullus and verba I'm sorry if I'm mangling the Latin but it means take no one's word for it and I love that uh take no one's word for it so I think uh we are encouraged these days to take in knowledge pour it into our heads like a bucket and uh we regurgitate it and we use fancy words to cover up what we don't mean what we don't know and I don't accept that unless I understand something at its core fundamental level I don't understand it and then beyond that level I get bored I don't care to understand it so I think just being able to be very particular about what you take in make sure you truly understand it and that it is true truth is the most important thing because if you're going ahead with falsehoods because they're convenient you're just going to walk around bumping your head against reality and wondering why it hurts so it's important to just always look for the truth figure it out for yourself make sure it fits into your understanding be open to revising it because you're always wrong. it's just question of how wrong you are uh and then using that to uh find the commonalities in life and and navigate it and I think that's why uh, you're better off asking someone like me about very basic things uh than about very advanced things can i ask you a basic question Naval Ravikant outlines a few different ways we acquire knowledge. He describes: Knowledge from direct experience: This is what you learn firsthand when you experience something, generating understanding within you. ( ) Knowledge from other sources: This is information you pick up from others, synthesize, and perhaps pass on. ( , ) Knowledge that you create: Naval considers this type of knowledge to be rare. ( ) Naval places a higher value on "understanding" rather than just "knowledge." He feels that "knowledge" can often be confused with memorizing facts, whereas understanding involves a deeper grasp of concepts. ( ) The type of knowledge he values most is that which is directly verified by his own experience and fits logically with his existing framework of understanding. ( ) He emphasizes the importance of understanding things at their core, fundamental level, to the point where he can explain them in simple terms and connect them to his own experiences. ( , ) talk about that steel framework thing you say that learn the first principles? Yes. Um, while we were at the event, a lot of the people backstage were like, ask Navel about how he achieved this level of clarity and I understand that you focus on first principles thinking, but what's underneath that thought. Like, did you read a book at some point in life that pointed you towards it? No, no, no, no, no. I, I think, uh, when I was young, my dad wasn't around much And, uh, he was gone, he had to, he immigrated to the US before the rest of us, did. it took four years where he could pull us there. And then my parents went through divorce and so on. So one good thing was I never had anybody telling me what to do ever. Um, and I had to figure everything out for myself and I think that helps a lot. It makes you very high agency. Um, I also nobody in my like my aunts and my mom they loved us to death, but there was nobody saying this is right. That's wrong. Do it this way. Don't do it that way. So you figure it out for yourself and started with reading. But eventually just goes to thinking, but I don't think there's anything special. I I think I think deep down, everybody wants to understand things, right? Everybody wants to learn. Everyone's curious. All children are curious. Any young child? they'll be asking questions all day long and I think the trick is just don't stop asking questions and keep asking questions until you can answer something your own satisfaction Um maybe I had the luxury of the time to read you know, that's helpful because it helps answer questions. When you're younger at least some some reading a lot of too much reading or reading the wrong things can be bad too, right? Because you can stuff your head with the wrong things. I I I guess for for decades, I did not feel like I was that smart because what would happen is I would talk to somebody and they'd say, well, there's this and that and there's this. And they would just start using big terms and big words and defining huge things. And and it took me a long time to figure out they didn't know what they were talking about. If someone's using a lot of big words, you know, it's the mark of a charlatan to explain simple things in a complex way. And uh it's a mark of a genius like Richard Fineman to to explain complicated things in simple ways the smartest people actually understand what they're talking about so they can explain it in plain English they don't need to resort to abstractions they don't need to impress and a lot of times with abstractions are leaky you poke at them and it doesn't quite map or it doesn't mean what what they think it means um i'd rather like stick and I'm a failed physicist I wanted to be a physicist so and my ma math wasn't good enough plus I wanted to make money so it didn't work out but uh I was surrounded by a lot of physicists and I read a lot of physics and so I felt dumb compared to the other physicists and so i i well i you're not going to trick a physicist you're not going to walk in and start talking physics And then suddenly like you you say something that's wrong, they're going to call you on it Physics is very rigorous and same thing with computer science which I did end up studying is the code has to compile the code Has to run the code has to work You can't you can't trick the machine using words And so I think having a grounding in scientific disciplines around scientific people forces you to be rigorous and humble about your actual sphere of knowledge. Uh, you can't bluff people Um, systems in which you get feedback like real feedback Uh, free markets and nature, right? you can't trick nature. I can't lie to nature Uh, and I can't trick free markets all end up broke. So these systems give you very good feedback and they force you into being rigorous um but it's very easy to trick people so if you're in politics if you're in law if you're in journalism if you're in media uh if you're just you know bsing with your friends it's very easy to trick people and then you get social rewards you don't get the negative feedback and that gets baked into your personality your identity your way of thinking uh so i think I was fortunate enough to be scientifically uh to get scientific feedback and to be pushed back upon through science and scientific people um also grew up in a tough environment so it was a no bs environment. you had to be correct so you know when you're trying to survive you have to be correct uh when you have an abundance of resources and things are easy you don't have to be right because you there's cushions everywhere in the environment for you um so maybe I was forged that way but like I said I don't i don't introspect much i don't it doesn't really matter to me it's ancient history all that matters is here because this is all there is so let's talk about the hein