Interpersonal conflict arises from misinterpreting others' actions. Instead of assuming negative intent, question your own assumptions ("Why do I think this?"). Neutral investigation reveals underlying reasons, leading to more compassionate interactions and ultimately, greater inner peace. This segment details a powerful methodology for resolving interpersonal conflicts. Instead of immediately judging others, the speaker advocates for a process of self-interrogation: "Why am I thinking this way about this person?" This introspective approach, conducted neutrally and without bias, allows for a deeper understanding of one's own assumptions and biases, leading to more compassionate and productive interactions. The speaker illustrates this with a detailed example, showcasing how questioning one's initial judgment can reveal unforeseen factors and lead to more accurate assessments of others' actions and motivations. The process emphasizes self-awareness and the importance of understanding the context before forming judgments.